Onwards and Upwards

March 23, 2010 at 3:01 pm (Boys, Friends, Life, Nathan, Steve, The Future, Wifey, Work)

Since my ‘confrontational ending’ with Nathan last week, the emails have continued (from him to me, not the other way around). I tried blocking his address on my Hotmail account but for some reason they keep coming through.. How ironic. Yesterday I received an email saying “I’m sorry”, and 20mins later had a rather lovely visit to my house from the police regarding his apparent ‘concern for the wellfare of himself and his family’… What the fuck?! I explained the situation, that he was a compulsive liar and a druggie, and as they left they apologised for wasting my time, haha… If that was his masterplan to get me to speak to him again, something tells me that’s not going to work. He’s completley lost the plot.

I sent him a phoney email this morning, saying that I had contacted a solicitor about his harrassment, and that any future contact would mean he would be served with a court order, which would lead to an eventual injunction against him. Hopefully he’ll get the point and leave me the fuck alone now! As my Dad so smuggly pointed out, I really don’t know how I pick them! I always end up with the psychos, or turn them all psycho. I’m not sure which is worse.

Looking onwards and upwards, as the post in entitled, Air Force One gets back from his 5-month Saudi stint on Friday. I don’t really know what to think about it all. He has been in touch regularly since being over there, just chit-chat, nothing too serious, and he even came back for a couple of days over Valentine’s weekend, but at that time I was still in a semi-relationship with young fuck-face. AF1 came into the bar worked in, complete surprise, bless him, and he asked me what my plans were for Valentine’s Day. I completely fobbed him off. And I’m not one for regrets, but I completely wish I had have taken him up on his offer now. Hindsight is a beautiful thing!

After this, he didn’t get in touch at all for a couple of weeks, until I chirped up with an apology for being such a dick. Now he’s coming back, and I DO want to meet up with him, I’m not sure how it’s going to pan out. Incase he can’t be arsed with me, and my lack of enthusiasm with his last effort etc. I’ve told him I want to see him though, and he’s vaguely suggested meeting up for a few drinks, but nothings set in stone. We’ll have to see. Plus, he’s only back for 3 weeks. I want to make the most of him, haha.

In other areas of my life, I’ve been working for the NHS in Accrington for the past 6 months. And in 5 weeks and 6 day (not that I’m counting), I will be venturing to the Greek island of Zante with my beautiful wife Miss Wigman, for 5 WHOLE MONTHS!… Yep, we’re going to work the full season and then hopefully venture back through Europe with a few stop offs along the way! Things are looking up. I’m feeling really positive, and the time in the UK is flying by. Still got quite a lot of prep to do for going, selling my car and sorting my travel insurance etc, but our flights and accommodation are sorted so we’re good to go really :)

Went over to Dunny’s flat in Manchester on Sunday night for a messy gathering. Planned to go to Sankeys but it turned out that it’s not open every Sunday, only for ticketed events, so we went to Mojo’s on Deansgate instead. Had such a good night with some truly brilliant friends. And there was not one ounce of beef, which is always lovely. We’ve got a Banter Brigade meal planned this Friday night at Casa Tapas, and then onto Burnley, where hopefully AF1 will be ready for me to pounce on him. Haha!

“And I’m feeling good…”

xx

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